Actress Melissa Sue Anderson was born in Berkeley, California, on September 26, 1962. She gained notoriety in the late 1970s and early 1980s for her portrayal of Mary Ingalls in the adored television series “Little House on the Prairie.” Let’s see what she’s been up to this year!
Early Life and Entertainment Career Beginnings
Melissa Sue Anderson started her career in showbiz at a young age. She and her family relocated to Los Angeles when she was a little child, and during her dancing lessons, her teacher saw her potential and urged her parents to get her an agent. As a result, she started to feature in several ads, such as well-known ones for Mattel and Sears.
Television producers soon noticed her talent and charisma, and she started getting offers for playing parts. She has cameos in episodes of “Shaft,” “Bewitched,” and “The Brady Bunch,” among other television series. But her breakthrough performance in “Little House on the Prairie” would determine the course of her career for the following eight years.
“Little House on the Prairie” and Life After It
Following the completion of the seventh season of “Little House on the Prairie,” Melissa Sue Anderson persisted in showcasing her acting prowess. Her performance in the horror movie “Happy Birthday to Me” earned her a nomination, and she has starred in television series like “Murder, She Wrote,” “The Equalizer,” and “CHiPs.” She experimented with production as an associate producer on Michael Landon’s last movie, “Where Pigeons Go to Die,” in addition to her acting career.
In 1998, Melissa Sue Anderson was admitted into the Western Performers Hall of Fame in honor of her services to the entertainment business. In 1999, she also starred in the sitcom “Partners” on television. But as time passed, Melissa Sue Anderson made the decision to put more of an emphasis on her personal life and less on performing.
A Career Apart from Acting
Melissa Sue Anderson gave up performing in the later years of her career to focus on raising her family and being a stay-at-home mother. She was able to give priority to her family duties after moving to Montreal in 2002 and obtaining Canadian citizenship in 2007.
Melissa Sue Anderson kept pursuing her love of storytelling even as her acting roles decreased. She featured in other short films in addition to the popular series “Veronica Mars,” in which she played Stosh’s mother in 2014. Her autobiography, “The Way I See It: A Look Back at My Life on Little House,” explores her childhood star experiences and offers intriguing behind-the-scenes glimpses into the lives of the devoted crew, guests, and cast.
Without a doubt, Melissa Sue Anderson has made a lasting impression on the entertainment world and the hearts of people everywhere. Her influence is still felt as she accepts her duty as a loving mother and considers her amazing journey.
If you see a purple butterfly sticker near a newborn, you need to know what it means
Only weeks after Millie Smith and Lewis Cann learned they were having twin baby girls, they learned that only one would survive.
On April 30, after 30 weeks of a high-risk pregnancy, Smith delivered identical twins, Callie and Skye, the latter who lived only three hours.
Later in neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), Callie slept without her sister in the incubator, with her loving and grieving parents watching over her. In the unit with other babies, an overwhelmed mom of healthy newborn twins innocently told Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have two babies.
Crushed by the words, the new mom couldn’t find the words to explain her loss. Then, she realized that Skye’s legacy was to help other families who lose a child, and it came in the form of a purple butterfly.
In November 2015 Millie Smith and partner Lewis Cann found out they were having their first Child. Smith, who has twins in the family, said she had a “gut feeling” about having a duo and 10 weeks later, doctors confirmed she was expecting identical twin girls.
Less than two weeks after the excitement of knowing they would double the children in their home, the British couple were devastated to learn that one of their babies had a fatal condition and wouldn’t survive after birth.
“During the scan, the doctor didn’t say anything. I was very excited and loved seeing the little babies, but she was silent. Both Lewis and I immediately knew there must be a problem,” Smith said.
Doctors shared the news that one of the babies had anencephaly, which according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) affects about one in 4,600 babies across the U.S. It’s a serious birth defect where a baby is born without parts of the brain and skull, and “almost all babies born with anencephaly will die shortly after birth.”
Knowing that one baby would die soon after birth, and that there were risks involved for their other baby, the couple decided to move forward with the extremely high-risk pregnancy.
Over the next several months, Smith and Cann named their twins Skye and Callie. “We knew that Skye needed to have a name before she was born,” Smith said. “Knowing she would only survive for seconds or minutes, I wanted her to be named during that time.”
The meaning behind “Skye,” she explained “was somewhere we knew she would always be, that we could look up at the sky and remember our baby.”
When Smith went into labor after only 30 weeks on April 30, she needed an emergency C-section. To help navigate the loss, the couple had a “bereavement midwife” during the birth, and they were put I a special room the called the “Daisy Room,” where families can spend time with a baby before and after she/he passes.
“When the girls were born, they both cried. This was a huge moment, as we were told that Skye would not make a noise or move,” said Smith, who was thankful to have three hours with Skye before she died. “We were cuddling Skye when she passed away. This was the worst moment in our lives. I have never ever felt heartbreak like that before. But I am proud that she fought for so long to spend time with us.”
Born premature, Callie had to stay in NICU while she gained some strength and also in the unit were three other sets of twin.
“Most of the nurses were aware of what had happened, but as time passed, people stopped talking about Skye. After about four weeks, everyone acted as though nothing had happened, meaning the families around me had no idea about our situation,” Smith recalled.
One morning, a stressed mother whose twins were also in NICU, harmlessly said to Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have twins.
“None of the other parents knew what had happened or anything about Skye. The comment was completely innocent and more out of humor…They weren’t to know that I did at one point have two.” Smith continued, “But the comment nearly broke me. I ran out [of] the room in tears and they had no idea why. I didn’t have the heart to tell them what had happened. A simple sticker would have avoided that entire situation.”
It was in that moment Smith realized she had to create something that would speak for parents who had just lost a baby, ensuring the misunderstanding never happens again.
She designed a poster for the NICU explaining both hospital personnel and visitors that any incubator with a purple butterfly on it means that one or more babies, in a set of multiples were lost.
“I chose butterflies, as I felt it was fitting to remember the babies that flew away, the color purple because it is suitable for both boys or girls,” said Smith.
The purple butterfly concept–now under the Skye High Foundation–has spread to hospitals in several countries around the world.
Callie is now a lively, happy seven-year-old, and twin’s memory lives in purple butterfly cards along with other initiatives to help families with babies like Skye all over the world. The purple butterflies now come in numerous forms, like ornaments, cards, blankets, stuffed animals and more.
“Ultimately I will never be able to stop this from happening but the more support groups we can set up and put things in place like the stickers the better it will be. It’s the hardest thing anyone has to deal with,” Smith said.
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