Mark Bryan is a robotics engineer who has been married for 11 years and has a daughter. He identifies as straight and chooses to dress unconventionally. Bryan is an American living in Germany, and he doesn’t believe that fashion has to be gendered. You can find Bryan wearing a skirt and heels to work or out anywhere else he goes on any given day.
Bryan said he doesn’t like how limited men’s choices are in the fashion department, especially when it comes to office attire. Men’s pants only come in a few colors, mostly black, gray, dark blue and the occasional pinstripe, and cuts.
The stylish dresser believes that if women are allowed to wear pants, men should be able to wear skirts and dresses as well. Bryan likes how skirts come in many styles and patterns – and many more colors – unlike men’s clothing.
Bryan prefers to mix traditional gender looks by wearing masculine attire on his top half, like a blazer and tie, and traditionally feminine attire on the bottom half. He will typically wear a pencil skirt and four-inch heels on the bottom.
Wearing high heels is no problem for Bryan. He first learned how to do it when his college girlfriend asked him to wear high heels while dancing with her so that they were on the same level. They continued this for over a year.
Bryan doesn’t let stereotypes or assumptions stop him from dressing in a way that brings him joy. He challenges expectations and does so unapologetically. Keep reading to hear what Bryan has to say about his fashion choices.
Bryan has a very clear idea about how he likes to dress. He told Bored Panda: “To me, clothes have no gender. I prefer skirts to dresses. Dresses don’t allow me to mix the genders. I prefer a ‘masculine’ look above the waist and a non-gendered look below the waist. It’s all about clothes having no gender.”
He continued: “I am old enough to remember that in school, the girls could not wear pants. Pants have now become a non-gendered article of clothing. So why can’t skirts and heels be non-gendered? Besides, men wore heels before women did. Maybe not today’s stiletto-style heels, but men did wear heels before women.”
Bryan is correct about that. High heels can look back on a long history. Although historians and archaeologists cannot date their invention clearly, they have been around at least since the 10th century. And they were not a fashion statement at first. No, the first recorded use of high heels was eminently practical: the Persian cavalry wore boots with heels, called a kalash or galesh, that made it easier for them to keep their feet inside their stirrups. This is, by the way, the same reason why cowboy boots have a small heel as well!
Since owning a horse was a sign of wealth, only well-off men could afford to wear these high-heeled boots. The use of them slowly spread across Europe, and high heels heels became one of the fashion signs of rich noblemen or traders. In fact, following the Great Schism of the Christian Church in the 11th century, even the pope wore high heels.
It wasn’t until several hundred years later that fashion slowly changed. During the 18th century, cultural concerns in Europe came up about the distinction between males and females and talk about what men and women should wear arose. This is the point in time where the belief that fashion is something effeminate and frivolous that “real men” shouldn’t care about hails from. Due to these changing beliefs, men largely abandoned high heels heels, as they were seen as impractical and mere accessories.
Bryan is one of the examples of how high-heels are slowly coming back as an accepted form of footwear for men. Although the engineer champions the option of wearing high-heeled shoes for men, he understands many people will look twice when they see him. He compares his style choices to someone who chooses to dye their hair bright colors. He explained:
“Take a person with bright green hair. Green hair is not normal. You look up and see this person, your mind tells you it’s a person with green hair, you think to yourself, that’s odd or interesting, then you go back to do what you were doing and don’t give it another thought. I believe this is the same when people see me in a skirt and heels.”
Bryan doesn’t have to struggle to find skirts and heels that fit him either. He wears a size 8 in skirts, and with smaller feet for a man, his shoe size in heels is 8.5. If you know a man who is considering trying out wearing heels and skirts too, Bryan suggests starting with a lower heel until you feel more comfortable walking in high heels.
What do you think of Mark Bryan’s style choices? Do you know any men who would try walking in high heels? Let us know, and be sure to send this along to your friends and family.
O.J. Simpson: A Complex Legacy
O.J. Simpson, whose name has come to represent scandal, died at the age of 76. Simpson, who is well-known for his football prowess and his contentious murder prosecution, had both joys and sorrows throughout his life.
Simpson was born in San Francisco on July 9, 1947, and was a gifted athlete from a young age. After participating in football during his high school years, he went on to play at the University of Southern California, where he excelled as a running back. Simpson’s skill made the Buffalo Bills select him with the first pick in the 1969 NFL Draft. After that, he had a prosperous career with the Bills and then the 49ers in San Francisco.
Simpson made incredible strides in the football game. He broke the record in 1973 when he became the first athlete to rush for more than 2,000 yards in a single season. He was known as “Juice” because he was a strong and lively player. He was honored for his accomplishments to the game in 1983 when he was admitted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame.
Following his football retirement, Simpson went on to seek a career in acting and television. He went on to become a football commentator and made appearances in movies and TV series. But his personal sorrow and legal issues quickly overshadowed his career accomplishment.
Nicole Brown Simpson, Simpson’s ex-wife, and her friend Ron Goldman were brutally murdered in 1994. The “Trial of the Century” officially began when Simpson was taken into custody and accused of the crimes. Millions of people watched the trial proceedings on television as it captured the attention of the country.
In a highly contentious decision, Simpson was found not guilty of the killings despite a ton of evidence against him. The trial’s verdict severely polarized the nation, permanently damaging Simpson’s reputation.
Following his acquittal, Simpson encountered several legal difficulties. In a civil lawsuit, he was judged responsible for the deaths of Ron Goldman and Nicole Brown Simpson, and his family received an order to compensate him handsomely. Furthermore, Simpson was found guilty in 2008 of kidnapping and armed robbery connected to a Las Vegas event. Before his release in 2017, he spent almost nine years behind bars.
Simpson left behind a complex legacy during his life. Despite being a well-known football player and having a captivating personality, his legal issues and criminal prosecutions eclipsed his on-field accomplishments. His experience serves as a reminder of the complexity of human nature and the long-term effects of the decisions we make.
Let’s remember the victims of the crimes O.J. Simpson was accused of as we consider his life and demise. During this time, our thoughts are with their families and loved ones. As they continue to heal from their loss, may they find comfort and closure.
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