How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Johnny Depp gave entire movie salary to another celebrity’s daughter to ensure she didn’t struggle in future
Johnny Depp is back in the news over a year after winning his defamation lawsuit against his ex-wife Amber Heard; this time, it’s for his work-related pursuits and a beloved Heath Ledger. The well-known actor is about to make a big return in the historical drama Jeanne du Barry by Maïwenn. The movie received a thunderous seven-minute standing ovation during its world premiere at the esteemed Cannes Film Festival in 2023.
A Return to the Big Screen
Depp’s first significant film role after his protracted legal struggle with Heard is Jeanne du Barry. Both fans and critics have been eagerly awaiting the actor’s comeback to the big screen. According to the way the movie was received at Cannes, Depp’s performance struck a deep chord and might be the start of something new in his illustrious career.
A Settlement in Court and a Charitable Promise
In their well reported defamation lawsuit, Johnny Depp and Amber Heard came to a deal in December 2022. Heard had to give Depp $1 million as part of the deal. Depp’s legal team revealed that he will be giving the full settlement cash to different charity, displaying his generous nature. This act is in line with Depp’s previous charitable contributions.
A Generous Past
Depp has a long history of charitable giving. One noteworthy event was when he gave his whole payment from The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus to the late Heath Ledger’s co-star’s kid. Matilda, Ledger’s little daughter, was left behind after he died in January 2008 at the age of 28 following an accidental drug overdose. Jude Law, Colin Farrell, and other performers filled in to finish Ledger’s last movie. They each portrayed distinct iterations of Ledger’s Tony, guaranteeing the project’s success.
Assisting the Family of Heath Ledger
Along with their work on screen, Depp, Farrell, and Law chose to give Matilda their share of the movie’s profits. Their anxiety about her financial future was the driving force behind their decision. Given that Ledger had neglected to amend his will to include her. This deed of goodwill demonstrated the generosity and camaraderie of Ledger’s coworkers and was greatly applauded.
Paying Tribute to Hunter S. Thompson
Depp is a philanthropist in addition to being close to Ledger’s family. In 2005, Depp paid $3 million for his friend Hunter S. Thompson’s burial, fulfilling the famed writer and journalist’s last request to have his ashes shot from a cannon. This lavish show of devotion and regard for Thompson—whom Depp starred in the movie Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas—was highlighted by this costly gesture.
Depp on the Legacy of Ledger
When talking back on his time spent filming The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus, Depp has nothing but praise for Heath Ledger. According to him, Ledger is “the only player out there with a thundering and ungovernable talent that is breathing heavily down the back of every established actor’s neck.” It was clear that Depp respected Ledger’s presence and skill, highlighting the significant influence Ledger had on others around him.
Accolades to My Other Cast Members
Depp also gave his co-stars in The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus acclaim for their outstanding performances. He emphasized the Devil played by Tom Waits, the outstanding acting of Christopher Plummer, and the compelling roles of Lily Cole and Andrew Garfield. Depp was proud of Farrell and Law and praised them for trying to use their work to pay tribute to Heath Ledger’s legacy.
A Sturdy Comeback
Johnny Depp’s perseverance and commitment to his work are demonstrated by his journey from a contentious court case to a well-received film debut. Fans and the film business are watching closely as he returns to the spotlight. Expecting more outstanding work from this versatile performer.
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