When my husband started acting distant, I turned to my best friend for comfort. She told me I was overthinking things. Turns out, I wasn’t. But three years later, fate gave me front-row seats to the consequences of their betrayal.
I used to think betrayal happened to other people—the kind you read about in dramatic Reddit threads or hear about in whispers at dinner parties. Not to me. Not to us.
A sad woman in deep thought | Source: Midjourney
For five years, Michael and I built a life together. It wasn’t flashy, but it was ours—movie nights on the couch, Sunday morning coffee runs, and inside jokes that made no sense to anyone but us.
And through it all, there was Anna—my best friend since high school, my sister in every way but blood. She had been there for every milestone, including my wedding day, standing beside me as my maid of honor, clutching my hands and crying happy tears.
Bride and her maid of honor | Source: Midjourney
So when I got pregnant, I thought it was just another chapter of our perfect life.
But then, Michael changed.
At first, it was subtle—the way he lingered at work a little longer, the way his smiles stopped reaching his eyes. Then it got worse. He barely looked at me. Conversations became one-word responses. Some nights, he’d roll over in bed, his back to me, like I wasn’t even there.
I didn’t understand. I was exhausted, heavily pregnant, and desperate to fix whatever had snapped inside him.
So I turned to Anna.
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“I don’t know what’s happening,” I sobbed into the phone at midnight, curled up in the dark while Michael slept beside me, oblivious. “It’s like he’s already gone.”
“Hel, you’re overthinking,” she murmured. “He loves you. It’s just stress.”
I wanted to believe her.
But the stress of it all—the sleepless nights, the constant anxiety, the aching loneliness despite being married—wore me down.
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Then, one morning, I woke up with a dull pain in my stomach. By evening, I was in the hospital, staring at a doctor’s lips moving, but not really hearing the words.
No heartbeat.
No baby.
Grief is supposed to come in waves. Mine felt like an avalanche.
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The miscarriage shattered me, but Michael? He was already gone. He sat beside me in the hospital, cold and silent, his hands never reaching for mine. No whispered reassurances. No grief-stricken apologies. Just a man who looked like he was waiting for a bus, not mourning the child we had lost.
A month later, he finally said the words I think he had been rehearsing for weeks.
“I’m not happy anymore, Helena.”
That was it. No explanation, no emotion. Just a hollow excuse.
Couple having a candid conversation | Source: Midjourney
The day Michael left, it wasn’t an argument. It wasn’t some explosive fight with shouting and tears. No, it was much colder than that.
“I’m not happy anymore, Helena.”
I blinked at him from across the kitchen table, the weight of those words pressing against my chest like a rock.
“What?” My voice cracked.
He sighed, rubbing his temples like I was the problem. “I just… I don’t feel the same. It’s been this way for a while.”
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A while.
I swallowed hard. “Since the baby?”
His jaw tightened. “It’s not about that.”
The lie was almost laughable.
I stared at him, waiting for something—remorse, guilt, anything. But he just sat there, avoiding my eyes.
“So, that’s it? Five years, and you’re just… done?” My hands curled into fists under the table.
He exhaled, sounding almost bored. “I don’t want to fight, Helena.”
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I let out a shaky laugh, the kind that comes when you’re on the verge of breaking. “Oh, you don’t want to fight? That’s funny because I don’t remember getting a say in any of this.”
He stood up, grabbing his keys. “I’ll be staying somewhere else for a while.”
Before I could say anything, he banged the door and left.
Anna, my best friend, followed soon after. She had been my rock, my lifeline through it all. But one day, she stopped answering my calls. My messages went unread. Then, suddenly—blocked. On everything. Instagram, Facebook, and even my number. It was like she had vanished off the face of the earth.
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I didn’t understand. Until I did.
It was my mother who found out first. She called me one evening, her voice hesitant. “Helena, sweetheart… I need you to check something.”
She sent me a link to Anna’s Instagram.
And there they were.
Michael and Anna. Laughing on a sunlit beach, arms wrapped around each other like they had been in love for years. His lips pressed against her temple, her head tilted back in laughter.
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I scrolled down, my hands trembling. Picture after picture, spanning weeks. Dinners at expensive restaurants, trips to ski resorts, candlelit evenings by the fire. She had been posting them freely, openly—while I was still legally married to him.
The betrayal burned through me like acid. But if they thought I was going to collapse and fade away, they were sorely mistaken.
I took my pain and turned it into power. Michael was sloppy, too caught up in his fantasy to cover his tracks. The evidence of his affair was undeniable, legal ammunition in our divorce. In the end, I walked away with the house, half of his money, and the satisfaction of knowing he’d have to start over from scratch.
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He took my trust. I took what I was owed.
Starting over wasn’t easy. There were nights I lay awake, wondering if I would ever feel whole again. If I would ever love again.
But life has a way of rewarding resilience.
A year later, I met Daniel.
He wasn’t just different from Michael—he was everything Michael wasn’t. Kind. Attentive. He never made me feel like I was too much when I opened up about my past. When I told him about my miscarriage, about Michael and Anna’s betrayal, he just pulled me into his arms and whispered, “You deserved so much better.”
And for the first time in a long time, I believed it.
A happy couple | Source: Midjourney
We built a life together. A real one, not some staged fantasy for Instagram. And soon after, we welcomed a baby into our world—a beautiful little girl with my eyes and his smile. I finally had the happiness that had been stolen from me.
Then, one night, fate handed me the sweetest kind of closure.
I was rushing home from work, eager to see my husband and daughter, when I stopped at a gas station. The place was nearly empty, the flickering neon lights buzzing softly in the quiet night.
And that’s when I saw them.
Woman at a gas station | Source: Midjourney
Michael and Anna.
But gone were the designer clothes, the picture-perfect vacations, the air of effortless bliss. Their car was an absolute wreck—rusted, dented, barely clinging to life. The sound of a baby’s cries pierced the air as Anna shifted the tiny bundle in her arms, her face twisted in frustration.
Michael stood at the counter, swiping his card. Once. Twice.
Declined.
He groaned, running a hand through his unkempt hair. “Just try it again,” he snapped at the cashier.
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“Sir, I’ve tried it three times.”
Anna stormed up to him, hissing under her breath. “Are you serious? We don’t even have gas money?”
“I told you things are tight,” Michael muttered. “Maybe if you stopped spending so damn much—”
“Oh, I’m the problem?” she shot back, bouncing the screaming baby in her arms. “Maybe if you kept a damn job instead of flirting with cashiers—”
“That’s not what I was doing,” he gritted out.
Frustrated woman carrying her baby | Source: Midjourney
Anna let out a bitter laugh. “Sure. Just like you ‘weren’t’ cheating on Helena, right?”
I bit back a grin. Karma is a beautiful thing.
Michael let out a frustrated groan as the gas station clerk handed his useless card back. “Unbelievable.”
“Yeah,” Anna snapped, shifting the baby in her arms. “It is unbelievable. You swore things were going to get better!”
“Oh, and you’re just so perfect?” He scoffed. “Maybe if you hadn’t maxed out every damn credit card—”
Frustrated couple having a disagreement | Source: Midjourney
“Are you kidding me?” she hissed. “I gave up everything for you!”
I watched from the shadows of my car, barely containing my laughter.
Horns honked as their stalled-out junker blocked the pump. A couple of impatient drivers finally stepped out, rolling their eyes.
“Need a push, man?” one guy asked.
Michael clenched his jaw. “Yeah. Whatever.”
The men shoved the rusted heap to the side, leaving Anna standing there, red-faced and exhausted, jiggling a screaming baby on her hip.
Men pushing an old car at a gas station | Source: Midjourney
Michael kicked the tire. “This is your fault, you know.”
Anna let out a bitter laugh. “My fault?” She turned to him, eyes blazing. “You want to know the truth, Michael?”
He crossed his arms. “Oh, this should be good.”
She let out a humorless chuckle. “I think Helena got the better end of the deal.”
And with that, I put my car in drive and went home to my real happiness.
A happy woman driving her car | Source: Midjourney
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The transformation of Joan Van Ark: From star on ‘Dallas’ and ‘Knots Landing’ to loving mother and wife
While performing in Denver, Van Ark met actress Julie Harris while interviewing her for a local newspaper, and the actress persuaded her to study acting and drama at the Yale Drama School.
As a result, Van Ark became the youngest student ever to receive a scholarship to the well-respected school and the second woman ever to enroll. The first woman was Julie Harris, who helped Van Ark into the school.
“She wrote to the dean and asked him to meet me. Long story short, my parents drove me to New Haven, Connecticut, to meet the dean, who gave me a scholarship,” she recalled.” It was meant to be.”
Valene Ewing on ‘Dallas’ and ‘Knots Landing’
Van Ark began her professional career at the Minneapolis Guthrie Theater, where she starred in The Miser by Moliere. After working about a year at the Arena Stage in Washington DC, she moved down to work with the national touring company Barefoot in the Park in 1963, which led to her Broadway debut. In 1971, she was nominated for the Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play after starring in The School for Wives.
At that point, Joan Van Ark had begun working in front of a screen rather than on stage. She appeared on television series including Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, and Days of Our Lives and even in one episode of Bonanza.
Even though Joan Van Ark wasn’t short of jobs, she was still looking for her significant breakthrough role as the 1980s approached. In 1978, she made several appearances as Valene Ewing on Dallas – which led her to the role of a lifetime.
Knots Landing – a spinoff of Dallas – premiered in 1979, and Joan Van Ark reprised her role as Valene Ewing. She starred in 327 episodes – acting alongside Michele Lee as Karen and Ted Schakleford as Gary – and became a massive star.
Even though it was a spinoff of Dallas – about the rotten but wealthy Ewing Clan – it was initially brought to CBS years before.
However, the network wanted a “big rich family” show, and Dallas got picked as the one. But later on, Knots Landing became a massive success as the studio realized how big of a show Dallas had grown into, and after only one season, it rose into the top 20 in TV ratings.
How Joan Van Ark almost missed out on her biggest role
Knots Landing became the story of Gary Ewing and his wife Valene – played by Van Ark – and how they decided to start a new life in Knots Landing.
However, Van Ark almost missed out on the part of Valene Ewing. She explained that she had a “three-way clash” where she did The Love Boat simultaneously, as well as a commercial in New York.
In the end, it was her husband – John Marshall, who we will come back to in a minute – that persuaded her into choosing Dallas. And it was a significant – and important – decision.
“I got the call asking me to do a guest appearance in this show called Dallas, which was attracting a lot of buzz, but I said to my husband, ‘John, why should I even read this script? I can’t be in three places at once,’” she told Express. “Then he read it and said, ‘No, you’ve got to do it. It looks wonderful.’”
“So basically, he talked me into a schedule that had me in LA one day, then flying to Dallas for two days, followed by two days in New York and then back to Texas. But looking at this old cast photo from Knots Landing – the spinoff from Dallas – I’m so glad I listened to him,” she added.
Dallas and Knots Landing became a 15-year commitment for Van Ark, who became identified by her role. As earlier mentioned, she and Julie Harris had quite a history – and in 1980, they met again
“I could stay forever on the show and be safe”
Harris was cast in Knots Landing as the mother of Van Arks’ character, and for the actress, it was almost too good to be true.
“When the producers told me they had finally last someone to play my mother, I held my breath,” she recalled in a 1984 interview with Florida Today.
“I thought, ‘Oh my God, are they going to say Phyllis Diller or Zsa Zsa Gabor, or who?’ Then they said it was Julie Harris, and I went right through the roof. I couldn’t believe they had picked her to be my mother. They didn’t even know we were friends.”
Joan Van Ark stayed for 13 seasons and 327 episodes on the show. Then in 1993, just one season after she left, Knots Landing was canceled. But the reason for Joan leaving wasn’t that she didn’t like it. Instead, it was all about her trying on new challenges.“I could stay forever on the show and be safe,” Van Ark told the Los Angeles Times in 1992.
“But three years ago, I did Night of the Iguana in Williamstown (Mass.), and I had a quote from Tennessee Williams taped on my mirror, taken from an essay he’d written on success. It said, and I’m paraphrasing here: ‘Security is in the shape of a kidney-shaped pool in Los Angeles, where you sit waiting for your residual checks.’ I was in a comfortable spot on Knots, and an artist should not be comfortable.”
At the same time, the television series became a huge part of Van Ark’s life. So even though she felt comfortable leaving, it was a tough blow since she thought it would be easier.
Blamed herself for ‘Knots Landing’ cancelation
“I have loved more than life the 13 years I’ve had on that show,” she said. “[Knots Landing creator] David Jacobs is a great influence on my life, has taught me so much about so many things. Ted [Shackelford] is the other half of every breath I take on the show, and personally, he’s a large part of my heart. The people are my family–we have shared marriages, deaths, divorces. It’s far more difficult to leave than I thought.”
The show didn’t quite work without the great chemistry between characters Valen and Gary. In fact, Joan took the blame for the show being shut down.
“Well, it was my fault. I jumped over to NBC to do a pilot which did not sell,” she said. “I was so ready to go, after fourteen years with the one lady, so I auditioned for the pilot, and they cast me. It wasn’t as cleanly negotiated as it should have been. When the pilot didn’t sell, they asked me back, and I did do the four-hour finale of the show.”
Joan Van Ark left the soap opera business behind but continued to star in many television series. She had minor parts in television series, including Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, and starred in some television movies. Between 2004 and 2005, Joan appeared as Gloria Fisher in 55 episodes of the hugely successful television drama The Young and The Restless.Joan Van Ark – marriage, husband, children
It’s common for celebrities in Hollywood to marry other celebrities, and show-biz marriages don’t always last very long.
But that wasn’t the case for Joan Van Ark, who met the love of her life back in high school. She met her husband, John Marshall, while the two were students in Boulder. In 1966, the couple married on a military base in Germany.
“Believe me, it was nothing like the marriages [Valene Ewing] has gone through,” she told UPI.
In 1969, they welcomed daughter Vanessa Marshall, who also chose a career in entertainment. She became a well-known voice-over artist and actually gave up on her on-camera acting career. Instead, Vanessa Marshall has lent her voice to animated films, television series, and several video games.
John Marshall went on to become an Emmy newsman, working on KNBC-TV and NBC. He’s had a flourishing career just as his wife Joan, and while the couple was working hard to make it in their respective fields, Vanessa was growing up.
For Van Ark, becoming a mother while trying to navigate through the business was tough. And she gives credit to her husband, John, for keeping the family together during those stressful years.
“He is the reason we have the most wonderful daughter in the world and that the marriage has stayed strong,” Van Ark told The Leader-Post in 1988. “I feel I am the committed person who can’t give up time for this or that.”
“He did not want to miss watching Venessa grow up, and he did not want to miss me,” she added. “He knows correspondents live out of suitcases. John made career choices I didn’t agree with because if it had been me, I would have packed my bags, and I would have been waiving at the airport.”Joan Van Ark – net worth
Besides her acting job, Joan Van Ark has a great interest in running. The 78-year-old has completed several marathons and explained she’s running instead of going to a psychologist. However, when it comes to her husband, she stated that she would never go on a run with him.
Why? Because “it’s the quickest way to a divorce that I know of. You’re always criticizing the other’s style,” Joan said.
In the last decade, Joan Van Ark has continued to work on stage in several productions for theater and starring in television series and movies such as Watercolor Postcards and Psycho Wedding Crasher. But she will always be most remembered for her magnificent spell on Dallas and Knots Landing.
According to Celebrity Net Worth, Joan Van Ark has a net worth of around $10 million.
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