My Dad Who Left 20 Years Ago Called from His Deathbed for a Final Wish — What He Asked Broke My Heart
When my estranged father, who left 20 years ago, called from his deathbed, I was torn between anger and curiosity. His final wish was something I never expected, and what he revealed about his disappearance shattered everything I thought I knew.
I was getting ready for bed when my phone buzzed on the nightstand. The number was unfamiliar, so I let it go to voicemail. Not even a minute later, a text came through: “ALICE, THIS IS YOUR DAD. PLEASE CALL, I AM IN THE HOSPITAL.”
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My heart stopped. Dad? After twenty years? I sat on the edge of my bed, staring at the message. Part of me wanted to delete it and forget, but curiosity won. I called the number back.
“Hello?” The voice was weak, barely audible.
“Dad?”
“Alice, it’s me. I… I don’t have much time.”
“Why are you calling now?” My voice was harsher than I intended.
“I need to explain… to ask something of you. But please, don’t tell your mother.”
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There it was, the same secrecy that defined my childhood. “What do you want?”
He took a shaky breath. “I left because your grandfather, Harold, paid me to disappear. He hated me, thought I was a failure. He found someone else for your mom, someone better.”
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. “Grandpa? He did that?”
“Yes. I was struggling back then. Addictions, bad decisions. Your grandfather saw a chance to get rid of me, and I took the money.”
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“So you just left us for money?” Anger bubbled up.
“I know it sounds awful. But I invested that money, built a business. It was all for you, Alice. To secure your future.”
“Why didn’t you ever come back?”
“Part of the deal. I couldn’t approach you or your mom. But I was there, watching. I saw your graduation, your volleyball games. I was always there, just… from a distance.”
I felt like my world was tilting. “Why didn’t Mom ever tell me?”
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“I don’t know. Maybe she didn’t want you to hate him. Or maybe she thought she was protecting you.”
“What do you want now?” I asked, my voice trembling.
“I need to see you, Alice. One last time before I go. I’m at St. Mary’s Hospital.”
I didn’t know what to say. Could I face him after everything?
“Please, Alice. It’s my dying wish.”
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The line went silent, and I sat there, the phone still in my hand, my thoughts tumbling. Should I go? What would I even say to him? I needed to think, but there was no time. He was dying.
The next morning, I called in sick to work and sat in my kitchen, staring at my coffee. Should I tell Mom? But he’d asked me not to.
I called my best friend, Jen. “Hey, can we talk?”
“Of course. What’s up?”
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“It’s… it’s my dad. He called last night.”
“Your dad? The one who left?”
“Yeah. He’s dying, and he wants to see me.”
“Wow. How do you feel about that?”
“I don’t know. Angry, confused. He told me things, Jen. About my Grandpa.”
“Like what?”
“That my grandfather paid him to leave. He said he was there at my graduation, my games. But he couldn’t approach us.”
“That’s insane. What are you going to do?”
“I don’t know. He wants me to visit him, but I’m not sure I can.”
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Jen was silent for a moment. “Maybe you should go. Get some answers. Closure.”
“I guess. But I don’t know if I’m ready to face him.”
“Take your time, but don’t take too long. If he’s dying…”
“I know. Thanks, Jen.”
After hanging up, I sat back, deep in thought. Jen was right. Maybe I did need closure. I couldn’t keep living with these unanswered questions. And if he really was dying… I had to see him.
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I decided to go to the hospital. As I drove, memories of my childhood flashed through my mind. The good times before he left, the confusion and pain afterward. The way Mom never spoke about him, the unanswered questions that haunted me.
I walked into the hospital room, feeling the weight of years and unanswered questions pressing down on me. The beeping machines filled the stark room with an unsettling rhythm. My dad lay in the bed, looking more frail than I had ever imagined. His eyes lit up when he saw me, a weak smile forming on his lips.
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“Alice,” he whispered, his voice barely audible.
“Hi, Dad.” I stood at the foot of the bed, not sure what to say. Anger and confusion swirled inside me, but seeing him like this, so vulnerable, made it hard to voice them.
“You came,” he said, relief evident in his eyes.
“I had to. I needed to understand why.”
“I know, and I’m so sorry for everything.” He reached out a trembling hand, and I took it, feeling the cold, fragile skin.
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“Why did you do it, Dad? Why did you take Grandpa’s money and leave us?”
He sighed, a deep, rattling sound. “I thought it was the best way to secure a future for you and your mother. I was a mess, Alice. Addicted, broke. Your grandfather offered me a way out, a chance to give you a better life, even if it meant I couldn’t be part of it.”
“Do you know how much that hurt us? How much it hurt me?” Tears welled up in my eyes. “You missed everything, Dad. My graduation, my volleyball games, my entire life.”
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“I was there, Alice. Watching from afar. It broke my heart not to be with you, but I thought I was doing the right thing.” He paused, struggling for breath. “I tried to make it right. I invested the money, built something that I hoped would help you.”
“Why didn’t you come back when you were better?”
“I couldn’t. Part of the deal was that I had to stay away. But I wrote to you, Alice. Letters, every year. They’re in a safety deposit box. Here.” He handed me a small key. “After I’m gone, open it. You’ll find proof of everything, and the letters.”
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I took the key, my fingers trembling. “Why now, Dad? Why tell me all this now?”
“Because I’m dying, and I can’t leave this world without you knowing the truth. I love you, Alice. I’ve always loved you.”
Tears streamed down my face as I gripped his hand. “I needed you, Dad. I needed my father.”
“I know, and I’m so sorry I wasn’t there. But I hope you’ll understand why I did what I did when you read those letters.”
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We sat in silence, holding hands, the machines’ beeping the only sound in the room. After a while, his breathing became more labored. He squeezed my hand one last time, and then he was gone.
I left the hospital feeling a mix of emotions. Relief, anger, sadness, and a strange sense of closure. The next day, I went to the bank and used the key to open the safety deposit box. Inside, I found stacks of financial documents and a bundle of letters, each one addressed to me, dated over the years.
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I took the letters home and spent hours reading them. Each one was filled with his regrets, his love, his hopes for my future. He wrote about the business he built, how he watched over me, how proud he was of my achievements.
By the time I finished the last letter, my anger had softened into a deep, aching sadness.
With the financial documents, it was clear that my father had indeed worked hard to secure my future. The money he left behind was substantial, enough to change my life. But it wasn’t just about the money. It was about understanding his choices, his sacrifices, and his love.
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I knew I had to talk to my mom. I needed to know her side of the story. When I confronted her, she looked at me with sad eyes.
“I knew about the offer,” she admitted. “I didn’t stop it because I thought it was best for you too. I thought you deserved a better life than what your father could give you at that time.”
“Why didn’t you ever tell me?”
“I wanted to protect you from the truth, to let you remember him without bitterness. Maybe I was wrong, but I did what I thought was best.”
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Her confession was another piece of the puzzle, helping me to understand the complex web of decisions that shaped my life.
In the end, I decided to use the money to start a scholarship fund in my father’s name. It felt like the right way to honor his memory and his efforts. It was a way to help others, just as he had tried to help me.
As I launched the scholarship, I felt a sense of peace. The past was complicated and painful, but it had brought me to where I was. And now, with the truth out in the open, I could move forward, honoring both my father’s love and my mother’s sacrifices.
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This teen heartthrob deemed as gay basically vanished after, Home Improvement, Well, after all these years he is finally surfaced again, and users say he is barely recognizable, My goodness, he looks so different
At the height of his fame, a beloved teen heartthrob made a shocking decision to step away from the Hollywood spotlight, leaving countless young fans yearning for more.
This former star of a popular 90s sitcom, who recently celebrated his 43rd birthday, was last seen in 2023, prompting nostalgia and disbelief among those who once had a crush on him.
So, what happened to the enigmatic actor known for voicing a classic Disney character in a beloved animated film? Dive in to uncover the story behind this mysterious figure!
He first caught the spotlight as Greg Brady’s son on the 1990 TV series The Bradys, a spinoff of The Brady Bunch. However, his true breakthrough arrived shortly after when he secured a role in a popular sitcom alongside a famous comedian, propelling him to stardom.
Only 10 years old when the show premiered in 1991, Thomas grew up on-screen as Randy, the middle child, during the show’s eight-year run. His charm and charisma propelled him to teen idol status, winning the hearts of millions.
Reflecting on his fame, Thomas told The New York Times, “You’re part of their lives, and there’s a lot owed to them. But it’s hard because you want to make everyone happy, and if you try, you set yourself up for failure.”
In 1994, at the age of 12, Thomas voiced the character Simba in Disney’s The Lion King, a role that resonated deeply with fans worldwide.
“Simba’s a lot like me,” Thomas once shared, explaining how he used his natural energy to bring the character to life. “Curious, fun-loving, always getting into mischief.”
Juggling his time between The Lion King and Home Improvement, Thomas spent two intense years moving back and forth between the two productions. “I had to remind myself, ‘Oops! Time to be Randy,’ then, ‘Oops! Time to be Simba,’” he told People in 1994. “You have to prepare yourself to become a totally different person. I mean, we’re not lions, right?”
By 1998, after leaving Home Improvement before its final season, Thomas began to step out of the limelight. “I’ve done so many shows with full-blown migraines,” he said. “I’d been going nonstop since I was 8. I wanted to take a break, go to school, and travel.”
Over the next few years, Thomas made guest appearances on shows like Ally McBeal, Smallville, and 8 Simple Rules, and lent his voice to animated series such as The Wild Thornberrys and The Simpsons.
Before his exit from Hollywood, Thomas challenged himself with more mature roles, including playing a bisexual hustler in the indie film Speedway Junky (1999) and a persecuted gay teen in Showtime’s Common Ground (2000). These roles, coupled with his private nature, sparked rumors about his sexuality, which he addressed on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno.
“In Hollywood, you’re not really anyone until there’s a rumor you’re gay,” he said. “It didn’t bother me, but they’re just rumors. Be careful with that internet stuff.” He later told The Advocate that the rumors started on a site called CyberSleaze and were entirely false. “It was a blatant lie that snowballed, and people accepted it without question,” he said.
In the early 2000s, Thomas shocked fans by stepping away from Hollywood to pursue higher education. After graduating from New York’s Chaminade College Preparatory School in 2000, he attended Harvard University, where he studied philosophy and history, before later graduating from Columbia University in 2010.
“I never took fame too seriously,” Thomas said of his Hollywood career. “It was a great time in my life, but it doesn’t define me.” He admitted that walking through libraries and attending classes was a refreshing and novel experience for him.
Although he left Hollywood behind, Thomas reunited with Tim Allen for several guest appearances on Last Man Standing between 2013 and 2015, even directing a few episodes of the series.
In 2023, fans were once again buzzing after spotting Thomas walking his dogs in public. Dressed casually in a beige sweater, jeans, and a black toque, his appearance stirred nostalgic feelings among fans.
“JTT, my elementary school crush,” one fan gushed, while another reflected, “He was my childhood crush, and I’m glad he avoided the weirdness of Hollywood.”
A third fan added, “He was a child star and a teen heartthrob. Hollywood doesn’t treat child actors well, so who knows what he went through.”
Another fan, referencing his famous bowl cut from Home Improvement, quipped, “Of course, he looks different! Not many 42-year-olds are walking around with bowl haircuts. He brought joy to so many with his early career.”
Despite his rare public appearances, Jonathan Taylor Thomas remains a cherished figure from the 90s, remembered fondly for his work in Home Improvement and The Lion King, and for his decision to walk away from fame on his own terms.
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