No matter how much we want to think our kids are perfect, the truth is that none of them are.
I’m not saying most parents aren’t doing a good job—most are—but childhood is a time for learning, and all kids will make mistakes they might regret later.
What’s most important is not just what happens, but how the child learns from those mistakes and grows from them.
It’s precisely for this reason that we introduce the concept of punishment early: a kid does something wrong and they’re forced to suffer the consequences of said act. It’s teaches them a simple lesson and, hopefully*, they don’t do that same thing again.
Of course, punishments can vary in degrees, ranging from a metaphorical slap on the wrist to methods that the offending child won’t likely forget.
In any case, one dad’s choice for his daughter certainly sits in the latter of those two categories. She was caught making fun of another student at school who had lost all of her hair to chemotherapy. When her dad found out, it’s safe to say he wasn’t impressed.
He decided to take steps to ensure she never did it again. He shaved her head bald, so that she’d know what it felt like to be in her victim’s shoes.
Needless to say, his method of rebuke has drawn plenty of criticism online, but he isn’t phased by any of it. On the contrary, he told CafeMom that he thinks it was a perfectly acceptable reaction.
He also told CafeMom that his daughter is dating the other girl’s ex-boyfriend, which contributed to the drama that played out.
“They were having an argument in class about stupid teenage gossip regarding my daughter’s boyfriend. At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a slut.
49ers Star Charvarius Ward the Lose of His 1-Year-Old Daughter
Superstar football player Charvarius Ward shared heartbreaking news on Instagram yesterday, October 29, 2024. In an emotional post, he revealed that his baby daughter had passed away.
49ers cornerback Charvarius Ward recently shared heartbreaking news on Instagram about the loss of his 1-year-old daughter, Amani Joy. Ward, who founded the organization Charvarius for Change in 2021, posted a loving photo of Amani smiling beside a loved one.
In his message, Charvarius expressed his sorrow, sharing that Amani had passed away on Monday morning, October 28, 2024. He described her as a “blessing” who filled their lives with joy, teaching them patience, trust, and positivity.
The grieving father, who began his football career at Hinds Community College, spoke about Amani’s strength and courage. He shared how she brought happiness to every room with her smile, adding that she had overcome challenges at such a young age.
Charvarius and Amani’s mom, Monique, felt privileged to experience the world through Amani’s eyes, which brought positive change to their lives. Charvarius ended his message by saying, “She will forever be daddy’s best friend and mommy’s little girl. We’ll miss you and love you forever, Amani Joy.”
In addition to his post, Charvarius shared on his Instagram Story with a message on a black background, saying, “I’m Broken ,” along with a photo of Amani in a onesie with the words, “My Baby. My Life. My Queen. My Heart. My Everything .” Monique also shared a post on her Story, writing, “My baby. God why? .”
The 49ers also expressed condolences, describing Amani as bringing joy to everyone with her “sweet demeanor and contagious laugh.” They added that they stand in grief with Charvarius and Monique, offering their love and support.
Earlier this year, Charvarius had shared a series of photos of Amani on Instagram to honor World Down Syndrome Day on March 21, 2024. He shared joyful moments with her and spoke about how Amani was a blessing. Initially, he and Monique struggled with her diagnosis, but those feelings turned to love once they saw her. Amani was born on November 17, 2022, and had undergone heart surgery early in life, but her parents cherished every moment with her.
An Instagram account created by Amani’s parents captured key moments of her life, from her birth to joyful times spent with her family. Our deepest condolences go out to Amani’s parents and loved ones as they mourn her loss.
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