With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
Please, share this story with friends and family!
When Carly Simon wrote the song You’re So Vain, her career changed forever, and yet the song remains one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. Who is the person Simon is singing about?
Well, Carly herself has revealed who the classic song is about.
The 1970’s sure was a time for great music. During the 1960’s, bands like The Beatles had conquered the world, and now it was time for the likes of Bob Dylan and others to take over.
Carly Simon – singer/songwriter
One of those who did just that was Carly Simon. The wonderful singer/songwriter became one of the most popular artists when her career began to grow in the early 1970’s.
We’ve all heard You’re so Vain and various other classics from the New Yorker. But what about her life? And who was You’re so Vain actually about? This is the story of the wonderful Carly Simon.
Carly Simon was born on June 25, 1945, in New York City, the youngest daughter of an upper-class New York family. Her father Richard Simon was the co-founder of the Simon & Schuster publishing company.
Carly Simon – childhood
Now, Carly’s childhood wasn’t exactly perfect. As a third daughter, she often felt inadequate. Did her parents really want her?
“After two daughters he’d been counting on a son, a male successor to be named Carl. When I was born, he and Mommy simply added a y to the word, like an accusing chromosome: Carly,” she said.
When she was just 7 or 8 years old, Carly experienced a string of disturbing sexual encounters with a teenage boy.
“I didn’t realize that I was being used,” she said in an interview with USA Today. “I thought of myself as being in love with him. I’m sure a lot of girls go through the same thing.”
As a young girl, Carly got to see what the music industry was all about. But it would be some time before she would become the sensation she was.
Simon split her time between her family’s townhouse in Greenwich Village, New York and a wonderful estate in Stamford, Connecticut. The estate in Stamford saw the young girl surrounded by celebrities like Albert Einstein and Eleanor Roosevelt.
The Simon family were also good friends of legendary baseball player Jackie Robinson, who soon would take Carly under his wing. Jackie Robinson and his family lived in the Stamford house while their own home was under construction.
Befriended Jackie Robinson
She got to sit in the dugout at the old Ebbets Field in Brooklyn – home of the then-Brooklyn Dodgers. Soon, she became the unofficial mascot of the team.
“Jackie even taught me how to bat lefty, though it never took”, Simon wrote in her memoir Boys in the Trees (2015).
“He always had the cutest look around the side of his mouth, as if he were thinking about what he was about to say before he said it.”
However, the family would go through a tragedy. Simon’s father was strong-armed out of his own company, and died in 1960, just before his daughter’s 16th birthday.
For her part, Carly showed an early interest in music. She started singing together with brother Joey – who later became a successful writer, writing the music for the Broadway show The Secret Garden – but later, it was her and her sister who would go on to pursue a career in the business.
As Carly wrote on her website, she and sister Lucy taught themselves three chords on the guitar and hitch-hiked up to Provincetown, MA in the summer of 1964.
The Simon Sisters – as they called themselves – sang at a local bar called The Moors, with a repertoar consisting of folk music, as well as some of their own songs.
Touring with sister Lucy
Carly Simon and Lucy were eventually signed to Kapp Records and played a couple of clubs in Greenwich Village, opening for early comedians Woody Allen and Dick Cavett, among others, and even played in the UK.
In her memoir, Simon recalls the boat trip across the Atlantic heading home.
They were on the same boat as Sean Connery, and Carly and her sister ended up spending the trip with the actor. At that point, of course, no one could realize or even imagine that Carly would write a Bond theme song 12 years later.
The sister duo released three albums in the 1960s before Lucy left to get married.
Carly Simon was on her own, but still determined to forge a career in the music industry. However, her career had a slow start. She started working as a summer-camp counselor and as a secretary on a TV show.
Carly’s career
In February of 1971, Simon released her debut album Carly Simon. The song That’s the Way I’ve Always Heard It Should Be – an anti-marriage-song – became her first hit, reaching No. 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 list.
In October, later the same year, Simon released her second album, Anticipation. By now, things had really started to blow up. Her album went gold in two years and contained the smash hit Anticipation, which peaked at No. 13 on the Billboard pop singles chart and also at No. 3 on the Billboard Adult Contemporary chart in the United States.
According to herself, Simon wrote the song in just 15 minutes while waiting for Cat Stevens at her place, whom she was dating at the time and had made dinner for. When he arrived, the song was ready, but the date only lasted a short while.
“He gave me whispers and drawings of Blake poems,” Carly Simon said. “He told me about his childhood, his mixed Greek and Swedish parents, and we made a connection that has lasted.”
With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
Please, share this story with friends and family!
My Fiancée Lost Her Engagement Ring and Demanded That I Re-Propose, but the Whole Truth behind It Made Me Gasp
My Fiancée Lost Her Engagement Ring and Demanded That I Re-Propose, but the Whole Truth behind It Made Me Gasp
Jason’s meticulously planned engagement party took an unexpected turn when he revealed his fiancée’s deceitful act of pawning her engagement ring for a shopping spree. In front of friends and family, he exposed her betrayal and auctioned the ring for charity, reclaiming his dignity in a dramatic fashion.
Losing her engagement ring on that hike devastated Emily. She was a mess, and no amount of shopping therapy seemed to help. She bought a new purse and shoes, but I could still see the sadness in her eyes. It hurt me to see her like that, and I knew I had to do something.
A lost engagement ring | Source: Midjourney
Determined to make things right, I made a tough decision. My PlayStation had been my companion for years, but it was time to let it go. I decided to pawn it and use the money to buy a new ring for Emily. With a heavy heart, I drove to the pawn shop.
The shop was a small, cluttered place on a busy street. As I walked in, the bell above the door chimed. I took a deep breath and approached the counter. A middle-aged man with a friendly smile greeted me.
The owner of a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney
“Good afternoon. What can I do for you today?” he asked.
I placed my PlayStation on the counter. “I need to pawn this. I need the money to buy an engagement ring.”
He nodded, looking at me with sympathy. “I see. Let’s take a look.”
The pawn shop owner inspects a gamepad | Source: Midjourney
While he examined the PlayStation, my eyes wandered around the shop. And then I saw it. My heart skipped a beat. There, in the glass display case, was Emily’s engagement ring. I recognized it immediately—the intricate design, the tiny chip on the band. It was definitely hers.
“Excuse me,” I interrupted, pointing at the ring. “Where did you get that ring?”
Jason sees the ring | Source: Midjourney
The man glanced at the display case and then back at me. “Oh, that one? A young woman brought it in a few days ago. Said she needed the money for something urgent.”
My mind raced. Did someone steal Emily’s ring and pawn it here? But as the man continued to describe the woman, my heart sank. It was Emily.
Sad Jason | Source: Midjourney
Why would she pawn the ring and then ask me to buy a new one? Was she in trouble? My emotions swung wildly between confusion, betrayal, and anger. I needed answers.
“Can I see the ring?” I asked, my voice trembling.
Jason understands it was his ring | Source: Midjourney
The man handed it to me. Holding it in my hand, I felt a mix of nostalgia and heartbreak. I thanked him and promised to return with money to reclaim it. Leaving the pawn shop, I knew I had to confront Emily.
But a simple confrontation wasn’t enough. I wanted to teach her a lesson she’d never forget.
Jason tried to find a way confront Emily | Source: Midjourney
Back at home, I decided to play it cool. I acted like nothing had happened, going about our daily routines as usual. Meanwhile, I hatched a plan for the perfect revenge.
I began by planning a lavish surprise engagement party. I invited all our closest friends and family. I told everyone it was going to be a special night where I would re-propose to Emily with a new ring, explaining how we had lost the original one on a hike. Everyone was thrilled and eagerly anticipated the event.
Jason invites everyone to a party | Source: Midjourney
I was careful with the details, making sure everything was perfect. I wanted this to be a night Emily would never forget. I wanted her to feel the same shock and confusion I had felt at the pawn shop. It was a cruel plan, but in my anger, it felt justified.
The day of the party arrived, and everything was set. The house was decorated beautifully, and the guests started arriving. Emily was excited, thinking it was just a regular party. She had no idea what was coming.
Emily excited for her party | Source: Midjourney
As I looked around at our friends and family, all there to witness what they thought would be a magical moment, I felt a pang of guilt. But I pushed it aside. This was for Emily. She needed to understand the impact of her actions.
The moment arrived. I got down on one knee, holding the new ring in my hand. Emily’s eyes sparkled with surprise and joy. But I wasn’t done yet. The real surprise was yet to come.
Jason executes his plan | Source: Midjourney
As everyone gathered around, I took the stage with a microphone in hand. “Thank you all for coming,” I began, my voice steady and confident. “Tonight is a very special night. I want to share something important with all of you.”
I turned to Emily, who was smiling broadly, expecting a heartfelt proposal. “Six months ago, I proposed to you with a ring that symbolized my love and commitment. Recently, we thought that ring was lost during a hike. But tonight, I have a different story to tell.”
The ring in a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney
The room fell silent, the suspense building.
“I went to the pawn shop to sell my PlayStation so I could buy a new ring and re-propose. But to my shock, I found our original ring there. The pawn shop owner told me it was brought in by someone who needed money for something urgent.”
Checked and frightened Emily | Source: Midjourney
I paused, letting the words sink in. Emily’s smile faltered, confusion and fear flickering in her eyes.
“And that someone,” I continued, “was you.”
Gasps and murmurs spread through the crowd. Emily’s face turned pale.
Emily understands her secret is out | Source: Midjourney
“You pawned our engagement ring for a handbag and some shoes, then demanded I buy you a new one and re-propose. You didn’t think I would find out, did you?”
Her eyes widened, tears welling up, but I pressed on.
“So, tonight, instead of a re-proposal, I have something else planned.” I reached into my pocket and pulled out the engagement ring. “This ring is a symbol of trust and love. And it deserves to be with someone who truly understands its value.”
Jason auctions his ring | Source: Midjourney
I turned to the crowd. “I’ve decided to auction this ring tonight, right here. All proceeds will go to a charity that supports honesty and integrity.”
The room buzzed with shock and excitement as I handed the microphone to the auctioneer I had secretly hired for the night. Emily stood frozen, humiliated and speechless.
The auctioneer | Source: Midjourney
As the auctioneer began taking bids, I watched with satisfaction. The ring sold quickly, raising a substantial amount for charity. The room erupted in applause, and I felt a weight lift off my shoulders.
Jason talks to his friend | Source: Midjourney
After the auction, friends and family approached me with mixed reactions. Some were shocked, others were impressed by my bold move. My best friend, Mark, patted me on the back.
“Man, that was intense,” he said. “I can’t believe you pulled that off.”
I shrugged, trying to play it cool. “Had to do something. Couldn’t let it slide.”
Emily tries to win Jason back | Source: Midjourney
Emily, still standing off to the side, finally found her voice. She approached me, tears streaming down her face.
“Jason, I… I can’t believe you did this. Why didn’t you just talk to me?” she pleaded.
I looked at her, feeling a pang of guilt mixed with the lingering anger. “You lied to me, Emily. You pawned the ring and didn’t even think to tell me the truth. How could I trust you after that?”
Jason doesn’t want anything to do with Emily | Source: Midjourney
She sobbed, covering her face with her hands. “I was desperate. I made a mistake. I’m so sorry.”
I sighed, the reality of the situation settling in. “I needed you to understand the gravity of what you did. Trust isn’t something you can just throw away and expect to get back.”
Jason sits in an emptying restaurant | Source: Midjourney
The room began to empty as guests slowly left, whispering among themselves about the night’s events. I stood there, feeling a mix of relief and sorrow. It wasn’t the ending I had envisioned for us, but it was the one we had come to.
As the last guests left, I walked over to the charity representative to hand over the proceeds from the auction. “Here you go. I hope this helps,” I said, trying to focus on the positive outcome of the night.
Charity associate | Source: Midjourney
“Thank you, Jason. This will make a big difference,” she replied, taking the envelope with a warm smile.
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