During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Keeping Insects at Bay: Say Goodbye to Pesky Intruders in Your Home
It can be very difficult to deal with bothersome insects like flies and mosquitoes. These unwanted visitors cause inconvenience and occasionally even pose health dangers when they infiltrate our homes. Although the market is flooded with insect repellents, many of them are made with dangerous ingredients and additions. Fortunately, there are healthy and environmentally beneficial natural substitutes available.
Recognizing the Intruders
It’s critical to recognize the factors that draw insects to our houses in order to take effective precautions against them. Certain environmental variables, food, and light all attract mosquitoes and flies. They lay their eggs in a variety of locations, so it’s critical to address these problems before they develop into a serious infestation. Insects, strangely enough, are drawn to sweets, sugar, and fermented materials but not to breadcrumbs or little food remnants.
Adopting a Proactive Strategy
Keeping your house clean is the first step in preventing pest invasions. You may greatly reduce the likelihood of these unwanted visitors by removing food trash, correctly closing food packaging, and maintaining a clean environment. Thus, avoid leaving food or crumbs outside to draw their attention!
Using natural repellents is frequently the greatest option when it comes to mosquitoes because it is affordable, safe for the environment, and safe for you.
Natural Remedies at Home: An Approach
Making your own insect repellent with inexpensive, easy-to-find items is a terrific method to keep bugs away. Who knew it could be so simple to make a natural bug repellent? You may keep insects out of your kitchen and other areas of your house by combining tastes and odors that they find repulsive.
How to Make an All-Natural Bug Repellent
Rice vinegar can be used to create a natural insect repellent that works well. This repellent is simple to prepare and effective all year round. Take these easy actions:
Cut the top of a plastic bottle so that it resembles a funnel.
Pour in one cup of dish soap and shake the bottle until the mixture is well combined. Insects find the pleasant scent that humans like so strongly offensive. White wine vinegar, which has a tart and strong smell, is an alternative.
Put the bottle in your kitchen or anywhere else where there are lots of insects. After the repellent does its job, you won’t ever have to deal with flies or mosquitoes again.
Safety Advice: To prevent mishaps, always keep the container safely and out of the reach of kids and dogs.
Try this natural remedy and you’ll soon find that insects will never again dare to disturb your tranquil house. It’s time to abandon chemical-laden repellents in favor of a greener strategy. Enjoy a pest-free living environment by using natural repellents and keeping your home clean.
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