Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
People have absolutely loved this project and the final dress. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
I Caught My In-Laws Snooping in My Drawers, but Their Karma Was What They Found Inside
In the aftermath of her crumbling marriage, April faces a new challenge as her in-laws invade her privacy, searching for evidence of her guilt. But the tables turn dramatically when they stumble upon unexpected proof of their son’s secret life.
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I’m April, ready to spill some tea on a bizarre chapter of my life that has just unfolded. It’s about how my in-laws got a taste of their own medicine most unexpectedly. So, buckle up!
A bit about me first: I’m 28, a lover of art, a tad bit impulsive, and recently, heartbreakingly single.
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My now estranged husband Liam, who’s 30, seemed like the love of my life until a few months into our marriage when a bombshell dropped. He told me he was bisexual.
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I won’t lie; it floored me—not the bisexuality but the hiding it. After a whirlwind of emotions, I decided I was okay with it as long as we stayed monogamous.
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No open relationships for me, thank you very much. I was clear: “If that’s what you want, then you need to be with someone else because it’s not me.”
Liam promised me I was the only one for him, that he didn’t need anyone else. Turns out, promises are sometimes just pretty lies.
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Fast forward a bit, and guess what? I found out he was having an affair. And not just any affair, but with another man.
How, you ask? Oh, the modern way—through his iPad which was as unfaithful in keeping secrets as he was. The photos were… let’s just say, very Mapplethorpe-esque.
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The confrontation that followed was epic. “I can’t believe you would do this to us!” I shouted, my voice echoing off the walls of what used to be our dream home.
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He just stood there, with no words, no apologies—nothing. That was the last straw. “I don’t want you in my house again. Ever,” I told him, and I meant every word.
After our massive blowout, Liam had to get his stuff, but there was no way I was letting him stroll back into my life—or my house, for that matter.
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So, we agreed he would send me a list, and I would pack everything up neatly in a box. Simple, right? Well, it should have been. Liam wanted to pick up his things personally, but nope, not happening.
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We settled on a middle ground: I’d give his parents a temporary code to my house. They’re decent folks, and I trusted them enough. Plus, I had my security cameras all set up—no sneaky business on my watch.
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The plan was foolproof: they punch in the code, grab the box from the front entrance, lock up, and go. Easy peasy. Well, that was the plan anyway.
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So, the day comes, his parents show up, use the code, and pick up the box. So far, so good, right? Wrong. His mom, bless her heart, couldn’t resist a little detour. There she goes, on my security footage, heading straight for my bedroom.
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My heart’s pounding, not because I’m scared, but because it feels so wrong watching them snoop through my space. But then, the plot thickens, and I can’t help but burst into laughter.
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She reaches my chest of drawers—the top one, where we used to keep our jewelry—and pulls out this big, mysterious envelope. Looking over her shoulder like a cartoon thief, she sneaks a peek inside.
I swear, her reaction is priceless. She looks like she’s about to scream (I could only see, not hear, remember?).
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n a panic, she stuffs everything back, dashes out of the room, and practically sprints to their truck. All this drama over finding the photos of Liam’s little escapades.
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I mean, come on, how can you not laugh at that? The irony is just too much. She came looking for dirt and ended up getting a whole garden’s worth!
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Continuing from the moment of unexpected comedy courtesy of my mother-in-law, let’s take a step back to paint the whole picture here.
You see, before all this unfolded, Liam and I, with a touch of what now seems like forethought, had set up a prenup.
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Oh, not just any prenup, but one with a clause sharper than a knife: if one of us cheats, the other gets everything. Yeah, my idea. Call it intuition or maybe just me being cautious, but part of me always suspected Liam might break my heart.
So, fast forward to the debacle of his affair, and there I was, armed with proof of his cheating.
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When I confronted him, he was all puppy eyes, begging me not to enforce the prenup. Said it would ruin him financially and oh, the horror, he’d have to confess his mess to his parents.
Out of what I now think was too much generosity, I agreed. I mean, who was I to turn someone’s life upside down, right?
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But here’s the kicker. While I was playing the benevolent soon-to-be ex-wife, Liam was spinning tales.
To my utter dismay, I found out he told his parents a story flipped on its head: it was me who cheated, and he, the martyr, didn’t enforce the prenup out of the goodness of his heart. Yeah, right.
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His parents, thinking they were on a mission to uncover my betrayal, came to my house that fateful day. They were supposed to just pick up his things and leave, but no, they decided to dig around for proof of my supposed infidelity.
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Can you imagine the shock on their faces when instead of finding evidence against me, they stumbled upon the graphic photos of Liam’s escapade? Their whole narrative just exploded right there in my bedroom.
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So, where were we? Right, the major fallout. Just when I thought the drama couldn’t get any worse, my phone buzzed. It’s Liam, and he’s furious.
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He accuses me of deliberately leaving those scandalous pictures for his parents to find. As much as I enjoy a good plot twist, I hadn’t done that.
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I was tempted to scatter them on top of the box just to make a statement, but that felt too harsh, even for me. His parents, after all, had always been kind to me.
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“I didn’t leave them out on purpose, Liam,” I tried to explain over the phone, my voice calm but firm. “You said your mom was looking for that ring you forgot to list, right? You told her where to find it?”
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“Yeah, but I forgot until they were almost there,” he retorted, his voice a mix of embarrassment and annoyance.
“Well, if you had told me earlier, I would’ve put it in the box,” I sighed, wishing he had been more organized.
Now here’s the kicker—Liam was more upset about his parents discovering he’s a power bottom than the actual infidelity.
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The conversation quickly spiraled from accusations to self-pity. “I can’t stay at their house now,” he complained. “I need to find somewhere else. You’ve really done it this time, April. You’re so cruel.”
Cruel? Really? If anything, karma was just doing its job, serving up a dish Liam had been cooking since his misstep.
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As the call ended, I couldn’t help but reflect on the entire saga. Despite the chaos, a weight had been lifted. I was free from the web of lies and deceit, and for the first time in a long time, I could breathe and look forward to starting anew.
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Now, dear readers, I turn to you. Am I the villain in this tale, or just a bystander in the chaotic life of a man who couldn’t own up to his actions? Did karma simply do what karma does best?
I’d love to hear your thoughts, theories, and maybe even some of your own similar stories. How do you see it? Was this poetic justice or just plain old messiness?
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